Photo of journalist, writer, and Tantric educator Barbara ElderAbout Us

HoneyWords is the creation of professional journalist, writer, Tantric educator, and ULC ordained minister Barbara Elder.

Barbara has over 20 years professional writing experience, working for newspapers and magazines, and publishing non-fiction, fiction, poetry, and personal essays. She is happy to provide a variety of writing samples during your initial meeting.

Through HoneyWords, Barbara's love of writing and words combines with her spiritual passion for loving connections.

"I believe it is possible to share love with everyone you meet," Barbara says. "But when you explore deeper, more personal connections, the intensity and power of that love increases exponentially."

As a journalist, Barbara's specialty is interviewing -- talking with others, making a connection, telling their stories. When she conceived the idea for HoneyWords, Barbara wanted to take her interviewing experience and her ability to understand and reach others, and connect those skills with personal, tailor-made wedding vows, commitment ceremony or civil union vows.

"By 'interviewing' the couple, individually and together, I am able to really get a feel for who they are. I can understand how they think, how they express themselves, the way they feel about themselves and each other," says Barbara. "With this understanding, I'm able to write words that not only describe a person's feelings, but even sound like them -- words they themselves would use. Not my words. Their words -- straight from the heart."

"When we have deep, powerful feelings, sometimes it's hard to put those feelings into words. I love the idea of really getting to know couples, individually and together, and creating words that express exactly what's in their hearts, their souls," Barbara says. "Everyone wants their special day to be perfect. I want to help partners share their feelings with each other, and their friends and family, with confidence, love, and wonderful honesty and joy."
 

HoneyWords is all-inclusive. Barbara believes that love transcends physical boundaries, and welcomes all couples, all faiths, all sexual orientations. "We have to celebrate love, in every way that it appears to us. Love takes all different shapes and forms. And love, always, is perfect."

She adds, "I am truly honored to be a part of a couple's special day. I am absolutely dedicated to helping make it the most precious, amazing experience possible." For HoneyWords, that means creating vows that completely express the unique thoughts and feelings of the couple -- individual, passionate, heartfelt.

 

 

 

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